New York City is something that I often imagine to be the center of our world; it makes sense because it is often imagined when we think of success and careers taking off. It takes real mettle to work and live in NYC; unfortunately, many find that their dreams turn to ashes and they are left destitute. I haven’t traveled to the Big Apple since my 7th grade Beta Club trip in middle school, but that changed two weeks ago. Working for the Association for the Promotion of Campus Activities (APCA) allows me to travel to our large conferences that are held in even larger cities; it just so happens that the first city that I got to travel to for my first conference was the biggest city (In my mind)! We left on a Wednesday morning at 8 a.m. I, having never flown on a plane, was understandably nervous. I had a mixture of dread and excitement surrounding me. My view certainly wasn’t bad.

I had always heard to “get a window seat”. I lucked out and had a window seat and sans partner beside me. That was probably a good thing too, because the take off scared me to death! I knew that planes took a lot of momentum and speed to take off, but I never expected the amount of sheer G-force that I felt! Once we reached 10,000 feet, I instantly felt nauseous. The mixture of dread and excitement had now added up into a feeling of weightlessness and queasiness. Every bit of wind that we hit that shook the plane the least made my stomach turn. I thought that I could hold it in until we landed, and I was correct. Thankfully, getting back on land did the trick! We got our luggage and we quickly hurried into a big, yellow taxi-van that was headed for our destination, Times Square. While our cab driver took the quickest route, the other half of our party’s driver took the longest, most scenic route. The view coming into the city, while not the most beautiful of pictures, was a wondrous sight to behold.


After getting our luggage out, we were greeted by the grandeur of the Marriott Marquis: Times Square, our home for the next five days. This was truly a hotel for those who want the full NYC experience! We checked in and had to store our bags, because our room wouldn’t be ready until 4 p.m. I wasn’t surprised, as that would have been too easy! Ironically, the hotel manager, who happens to be a friend of my manager, took us to lunch at the hotel’s restaurant for free due to the inconvenience. Trust me, the buffet which featured salmon, roast beef and a salad bar was divine. Interestingly, one of the most interesting parts of the Marriott Marquis was its elevator system.

You could argue that I was impressed by this because of my simple upbringing, but seriously, these elevators looked and felt like they belonged in a Star Wars movie. There were always countless pods going up and down at breakneck speeds. The first time that I entered one, it took my stomach going either direction!
After lunch we passed the time by having a drink at the hotel’s lounge and then did what all tourists in New York do, we went shopping! I had been talking about how I wanted to see Trump Tower when we were in NYC, but I discovered that since Mr. Trump’s election to the highest office in the land, no one was allowed into Trump Tower for national security reasons. This I completely understood, but it was discouraging nonetheless. What came next made my entire day. This guy did the perfect impression of our 45th president, and for the price of a dollar, he performed as the Donald on camera for me. It was yuuuugggeee.

After shopping, we headed back to our room on the 32nd floor. I have to admit, the view was spectacular!

I stood at my window looking at Times Square in absolute awe. I thought to myself, “this is what NYC is all about.” This was truly the best view that I believe anyone could have in this city. I felt so blessed to be able to witness this from my very own room! My roommate was Hoz, the only other male worker at our company aside from our manager, Eric. Hoz was often out and about in the city doing his own thing, so I usually had the room to myself. Frankly, I don’t see how the guy was able to stand after going out so much! Hoz and I have gotten along since day one, and I’m thankful to have had such a great roommate. That evening, Eric and his wife Heather took Hoz, myself and another relatively new person, our bookkeeper Ronnie, out to dinner at the famous Sardi’s restaurant. Sardi’s has been around since 1921, was forged by Italian immigrants and the character shows on each of its beautiful floors. The wait staff all wear burgundy jackets with white button-down shirts and bow ties. Honestly, they reminded me of the bartender from “The Shining,” but that just made me like the place even more! The most notable feature of Sardi’s isn’t the staff, food or atmosphere, it is instead the plethora of colorful caricatures that line nearly every inch of its walls. Sardi’s has been a host to talented people since its inception due to its proximity to Broadway. Countless classic and modern actors have visited the place, and their faces adorn the walls as a testament to their visit.
The food was astounding! We all ordered the same deal, which was an appetizer, entree and dessert for $59. I got canneloni, which is something that they are famous for, as an appetizer. A canneloni is like a tortilla stuffed with so much cheese and spinach that it melts in your mouth; frankly, it was divine. Steak was my entree, and the euphoria is to be expected with that. Finally, we all enjoyed creme brulee as our dessert, which I have only had on one occasion before. It was a great ending to our first night!
The second day was fairly simple. What wasn’t simple was the penthouse that the hotel allowed us to use to stuff our gift bags for attendants in!


This place was gorgeous, and was two floors tall. The events coordinator informed us that Jack Nicholson and David Letterman have attended parties in that very penthouse. I just wanted to party hard here! Unfortunately, Thursday was registration day for the schools who were attending APCA. It only lasted from 4-6 p.m., so the highlight of the day was eating at the famous Junior’s restaurant. A good example of serendipity was Junior’s. This restaurant, well-known for its cheesecake, was directly across the street from the Marriott Marquis. This became a daily morning stop for me, as they had $1.50 bagels! This was honestly the cheapest thing that I found in the city.
Friday was when the real fun began, as it was the real start of the conference. Being my first APCA conference, I was unsure of what to expect, but according to Eric and Heather, I handled everything well. Most of my job was showing people where to go for their educational sessions, working out small needs with the hotel and letting the speakers know when their time was almost up. Lunch came quickly for us all, and with it came the Sardi’s keynote luncheon. For the schools that chose to pay to attend this luncheon, a full-course meal was provided.


Yes, I got to eat at Sardi’s twice! This meal began with salad with vinaigrette, then a roasted chicken stuffed with herbs and finally cheesecake for dessert. The end of the meal signaled Eric to begin his keynote about one of two plays that the schools would be viewing that night. The keynote was targeted more towards the play, “Come From Away”. The basic premise takes place during 9/11, when numerous planes were diverted from their original destination of NYC to Newfoundland. The locals had to welcome the foreigners into their homes and community for several days in a wonderful example of community. The play goes over the elements of inclusiveness, community and engagement, which are key elements of APCA’s mission.

The other play that could be seen was “Charlie and the Chocolate Factory,” which is much more well known. I had gone with the group that was seeing “Come From Away,” mostly because everyone seemed to want to see it, but also because I had never seen it. After Eric’s keynote, he began an auction that included items straight from Broadway! Many of the items auctioned were posters from the biggest shows autographed by the entire casts! Shows like “The Lion King,” “Book of Mormon” and “Wicked” were just some of the shows in the auction. In the end, we wound up raising $4,000 for Broadway Cares: Fights AIDS Foundation.

It was also revealed that the writers of “Come From Away” were in attendance at the luncheon! I had the pleasure of meeting and speaking with them as well. After lunch, everyone continued with their sessions until closing time at 5 p.m. Everyone received their complimentary Broadway tickets for their respective shows and we went to the theater! Upon entering the “Come From Away” theater, I was shocked and surprised to see my friend, James Williams, from Cleveland, Tennessee! He was on a trip with his wife! I could not believe the absolute luck of running into him! The theater was beautiful, which I expected.


What I wasn’t too impressed with was the content to be honest. I admit that the acting, dancing, singing and music were all wonderful; however, it got old fairly quickly. I was wondering before I even went how they could make an entire play out of that set of events, and I found out. What they did was just drug out everything that took place into an hour and a half play that had me yawning at the hour mark. It also did not leave me humming any of its songs at the end, which was slightly disappointing for a Broadway show.
Following the play, some of the cast and writers came down to the front of the stage for a “Talk Back” with APCA members.

This was interesting and I’m thankful to have done this, but I was just wanting it to end the entire time. “Come From Away” was a decent play, and I’m glad to say that I’ve seen it, but that’s about as far as it goes. Honestly, the plays that I wanted to see were “Hamilton” and “Book of Mormon”.

“Book of Mormon,” being created by the makers of “South Park,” is something that I have wanted to see for years. Unfortunately, the price tag prevented me from attending. The same can be said for “Hamilton,” though I was not pleased when the cast of “Hamilton” openly spoke out against Vice President Mike Pence when he saw the play. I felt that it was a tasteless move that only made them look small and overly defiant. As a PR professional, I know that they could have handled that matter much better.
Saturday was pretty much the same thing, except that some of my coworkers and I went to a local Italian restaurant called Becco’s. This was your stereotypical Italian sit-down place, featuring muted lighting and small tables. The lasagna was phenomenal, and perhaps one of the best that I have ever eaten! That evening, I treated myself by finding a local hole-in-the-wall Mexican restaurant to munch on.

It was good, cheap and relatively fast, which were all rare adjectives in NYC! I later found myself a cigar and had a nice time just sitting in Times Square enjoying a smoke.
Finally, I had made it to Sunday, our final day. Obviously, we had to check out, and check-out was at noon. It made no difference to me as the one thing that I wanted to do above all else was visit the American Museum of Natural History (AMONH). I had been one other time on my 7th grade trip, but knew that I would appreciate that history much more as an adult. Just as NYC is more fun as an adult, so is the AMONH. I had to get an Uber to take me to the museum, which wasn’t hard, as they are abundant in NYC. This was the view that greeted me at the museum.

I felt like I was in “Night at the Museum”. The sheer size of the museum was stunning and I resisted the urge to salute it, being a true American and what-not. Entering the museum proved to be just as exciting as watching “Night at the Museum,” as a similarly extinct theropod greeted me upon entering.

While certainly no Tyrannosaurus Rex, this Allosaurus gave me a slight case of giddiness, as my inner child came out, and I felt like a kid in a toy store. Sure, it wasn’t a massive T-rex, but hey, it was pretty close to the movie!
Next was the hall of African animals, which were beautifully preserved testaments to the art of taxidermy.

I also was fascinated by this ancient foot trap, the earliest rendition of a bear trap. While primitive, it looked like it could certainly get the job done whether you are trapping animals or rivals!
Next was a wing dedicated to Asia. Animals and culture surrounded me.

Seeing this Sumatran rhinoceros gave me hope for saving these gorgeous giants. I know that the black and white rhino are somewhat endangered in Africa, but I had thought that all Asian rhinoceroses had gone extinct. Thankfully, I was wrong as there are two species of rhinoceros in Asia, the Sumatran pictured here and the Indian rhinoceros.

On the more human side was this small diorama depicting an encampment in Siberia, the northernmost part of Russia. While this may not have been interesting to some, I found it absolutely fascinating to see the rugged living conditions in this completely inhospitable section of the world. It’s astounding to me to know that people actually live and thrive in this harsh environment. I also felt quite a bit of respect for Siberians.
My next stop was Japan, which greeted me with a statue of the Buddha upon nagas, which are snake-like deities in Buddhist teachings.

While I am a proud Christian, I must admit that this statue wowed me instantly. The beauty of the Buddha upon these snake-like creatures drew my eye, and I had to capture this gorgeous piece of religious art for my collection. While I don’t worship Buddha, I can appreciate the amount of work and beauty that goes into his depictions.
Another thing to see was something that most would have just passed up. I am speaking of this Japanese mask depicting a traditional demon.

Macabre, most would say. Why would I want to capture the image of a Japanese demon? While this was one of many Japanese pictures taken to be shown to my mother who has a Japanese pen pal, this mask had special meaning to me. Ironically, this meaning isn’t something deep or intricate. I follow a YouTuber named “Lazy Masquerade,” who narrates horrifying stories about a variety of things that were originally posted to Reddit. I listen to Lazy quite often, as his British accent only seems to enhance the sheer dread of the stories themselves. How this connects to this mask is the fact that Lazy’s symbol is this Japanese demon with additional tusks. I saw this and instantly saw the connection. Just a little interesting info about me! Check him out some time!
Next was the Hall of Pacific Peoples. This held the now infamous Moai, or “Dumb Dumb,” as he’s known by fans of “Night at the Museum”.

The Moai was incredibly popular, and thus, I couldn’t get a shot of him without countless people surrounding him for pictures. I wound up purchasing a Christmas ornament of the Moai for my wife and I’s Christmas tree! My wife said that it looked like a turd.
Next was the Hall of Southern and Central America. I got a great picture of the Aztec sun stone, which is similar to the Mayan calendar that we base ours on.

I also snapped a picture of this little gourd totem from South America.

Known as Afasa, this depicts the cannibal spirit said to inhabit the forests of South America. I found it to be so grotesquely interesting, and I wish that I could have had a replica to take home!
Next, I found more animals that were gifted to the museum.

While there were countless birds for this “bird nerd” to fawn over, this pelican feeding its baby really stuck out to me. I believe this reason is because of the sheer absurdity of the manner of feeding! Pelicans are well-known throughout the world as important birds. Louisiana has a pelican on its state quarter. In ancient times, it was believed that pelicans would pluck out their own chest feathers and cause themselves to bleed to make their young stronger. It is this reason that pelicans are used as a symbol in alchemy as well.
One of the best parts of the museum came towards the end. The museum had dedicated an entire section to President Theodore “Teddy” Roosevelt, whose contributions to conservation resonate even today. It was Teddy who started the National Park service, due to his love of the outdoors and his status as an avid hunter and conservationist.

It was humbling to even sit next to this great man’s statue. I think that it was amazing that the museum continues to honor this man in today’s world of political correctness and safe spaces. Teddy Roosevelt was a rough guy, and I figured that someone would be complaining that Roosevelt offends them in some way. Normally, if someone claims offense in today’s world, their demands are met and the offending item removed. I’m thankful that Teddy has not been.
Upon leaving the museum, I was bid farewell by none other than Teddy Roosevelt yet again.

I felt awed entering the museum and I felt awed exiting. It really hit me hard just how much of an impact Teddy Roosevelt had on our nation. Soldier, hunter and eventually President of the United States, Teddy was definitely a man’s man. I felt that this was a beautifully poetic last view on my last day in New York.

My final picture is of the view from street level in Times Square. This picture is definitely a personality shot. Surrounded by taxis, people, skyscrapers and flashing lights, it’s easy to feel disoriented. When you look up at the massive buildings, you can’t help but feel small. This feeling of insignificance is quickly replaced by a feeling of patriotism that only NYC can elicit. New York is where you can build the American dream. America is a meritocracy, meaning that everything that we have, we earn. If you are lazy, then you won’t achieve the dream. It’s as simple as that. Handouts are not tolerated, because they aren’t earned. I am so thankful to be from this country, because I feel that the feelings of pride in our country are very lacking these days. Patriotism is something that I hope makes a comeback in the next few years. What I took from this trip is that if you work hard in life, you can do anything. The American dream is a real thing, you just have to be willing to work hard enough to see it come to fruition.
-Colby A. Denton